• Faith,  Purpose

    Why so serious about Jesus?

    The Beauty and Urgency of the Gospel All the time I get asked about my seriousness regarding Jesus, I laugh. The truth is, I was never this serious. “Shyness” used to be an easy excuse I give just to escape critics & insults about my FAITH. Evangelism never looked interesting to me at first…until I found answers. . Here’s the thing: There’s a reason why what we preach is called ‘The GOSPEL.” Let’s liken it to a sweet GIST you can’t keep quiet about when you see a best friend; The Gospel is GOOD NEWS! . A good question to ask is, What really is the NEWS we call GOOD?…

  • books,  Marriage,  Relationship,  Uncategorized

    Here’s what really matters in building a blissful marriage

    They spilled it all…at least as much as time permitted. The event was the Lagos edition of the Loveology Summit, organized by Ifeoma Nkem-Gbemudu, HR professional and author of the critically acclaimed book – “Can I Be Married Already?!” Just like at the first two editions (which held in Port Harcourt and Abuja), the convener – Ifeoma took the time to ask 4 married Christian millennials questions about everything they believe matters in building a blissful marriage.   Ibukun Osigbesan, Morenike Molehin, Wole Emmanuel and Chidi Oguegbu were the speakers on the panel. Below are some of the answers they gave to the questions asked: Question 1: What do you…

  • Marriage,  Purpose,  Relationship

    My Open Letter; “Singles in waiting.”

    I believe it’s an honest desire for single ladies to want someone they also can call a “Husband.” I don’t mean ‘Desperation’ now, ‘Desire’ is the word; Do You agree?? Having the desire to marry is a very good thing: “For God, Himself, saw that it is not good for a man to be alone,” (Gen 2:18, Prov 18:22). Meaning; as a lady, someone would need you for a helper, which is good. Marrying early is also beautiful, trust me; I admire many young couples. There’s just something practical to learn, watching them showcase real virtues even in their homes; Beautiful! . But you see this thing called ‘AGE’ friends,…

  • Faith,  Purpose

    Being Intentional about the Leadings of God in your spirit

    #Walking In Purpose “Before I shaped you in your mom’s belly, before you ever saw the light of day, I knew all about your life! I had holy plans. I set you apart for what I had in mind for you to do in the world-.” Jeremiah 1:5 MSG (paraphrased) You may have read that verse a billion times, but today, I want you to see it as a revelation! You know how powerful it spoke to me this morning?? . See friends, this whole gist about “Purpose” is beyond you; God was so intentional about your birth! Why weren’t you born 20 years earlier? It wasn’t even because of…

  • Faith,  S.T.O.R.M.S

    The PEACE of God when Life’s trial hits you so Hard!

    Because this topic is quite sensitive, let’s start this way; If you’ve had to deal with a hard time lately, or some things just didn’t work out as planned…that it makes you really upset and tired of ‘life;’ Take a deep breath and relax. . Allow the Holy Ghost minister Peace to your heart through these words. Don’t feel weird; I’ve been there before. By reflex, you may get scared and wonder if things would eventually work out to your favor… . I know the experience may have troubled your emotions, marriage, career, or even weighed you down to think there’s no point existing because you think God caused you…

  • Purpose

    Dealing with Scars, Insecurities, Esteem and Confidence.

    Sometimes in dealing with physical scars, the tendency to get disturbed about your new looks arises. Mine is almost all gone now; Hallelujah! But at the early stage, I felt really uncomfortable moving around public gatherings. Thinking back on my healing process, I believe it actually worked on my perspective about value in the long run; having a kind of confidence that is unperturbed by the changes it caused on my face. . Follow my line of thoughts, please. . First, let me state that looking good is cool. You should look good, especially since its the physical world we relate with. Your appearance and packaging should be beautiful. However,…

  • Purpose

    Grace; Temptations; Faith without Works; Where’s the Balance?

    Are morals important? A loud Yes! . However, all our good works put together couldn’t earn us a place in Heaven. We meet God’s qualification for Salvation by Grace: Jesus paid the price, reconciled us to God, solved the problem of sin, and gave us Righteousness as a Gift. All these are received by Faith. The big Question now is How? I’ll explain: . That we are saved won’t stop temptations from coming. I mean; our flesh and spirit are always at war. Sin-Looks-Irresistible!!! But my dear, You can’t be indifferent about it: “O well, I’ve tried, and can’t seem to control myself with those addictions.” . No! You have…

  • Purpose

    Struggles with Letting go of your Past

    Can we agree that sometimes, mistakes by the people we look up to are the kind of stories flooding the internet? It happens. I’ve read cases of divorce, infidelity, that almost didn’t end well but later got reconciled. They are likely to do two things; Hide in shame, especially if they admit being wrong and everyone writes them off. Use their scars as a lesson: “Yes we erred. Where did we miss it? Let’s Grow from it. We can use it as a testimony to help others.” I believe that’s courage! Costly mistakes happen, and I know they don’t look nice: You had an affair; You got divorced; You once…

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